DILEMMA CRITICISM

Criticizing such has become a culture of most people in our society. Even the ability to criticize is sometimes used as a measure of intelligence. People who are more capable of criticizing, the more intelligent people are also considered.

If you think about it like we brought up and educated to be a critic of human beings. Since the beginning we were often involved in finding the location of errors rather than looking for solutions, more often looking for anyone who should be responsible rather than work together to solve them together. More often discuss the shortcomings rather than praise the strengths of others.

Habits like that role a little more accustomed to creating people who focus on the bad side only. Apparently the people who criticize without a solution is the easiest job in the world and the people who always feel the most and always correct which is always full of criticism without solutions. When others put forward the idea, opinion or concept of the weaknesses we see, direct us to "Itching" if you do not criticize. Not to give a better idea or ideas to complement and improve, but we always think and lift the negative side. Why is that? because consciously or not, has become an important part of our.

I'm not anti the "Tailor of criticism." Since criticism is not really criticize a bad thing, just the opposite could be a vitamin and a motivator for those who criticize. Criticism delivered correctly, on time and on target is very useful criticism. People call it "constructive criticism". But come to think further, perfecting the idea that less than perfect or not in accordance with our mindset, do not always have to use criticism, especially criticism dropped (Character Kill). It could give you an idea how the opposite of the other really just a better, or it could be only by helping to provide ideas that improve the part that we think is less good. Ironically, more "smart people" only good at criticizing but not to give a better idea than the idea he was criticized.

Does this kind of good just to see the negative side of another person or really smart, he's just creativity that is often obscured by the habit of criticism criticize, so it is not possible that he also became less confident to express ideas. Fear of making mistakes, shame if it turns out his idea was not accepted, wrong and then criticize the exit. So just criticize without basis, without explanation, no description, and any input he can lift. Culture and environment such as this tends to make one's creative abilities and their environment to grow, even deadly. No wonder it easier to get those "smart" an appellation that smart because the ability to criticize, but not too innovative creative solutions.

In communicating, either real or virtual world, everything needs to learn to see things from a positive side. Need to learn to contribute positive ideas to spread the criticism that enlightens rather than purely an increasingly make us humans who are accustomed to seeing the negative side and satisfy the mind with negative charge. Even cover the positive side is actually bigger. The ability to appreciate and be grateful for the advantages it increasingly weak and prone to pessimism. Again, not a destination anti-criticism and the study is the evidence I also do criticism. But just wanted to remind myself and invite my friends (probably felt like I was a smart critique) accustom ourselves to think and use positive words.

What is criticism without solutions. Only criticism for being incompatible with the wishes or his own way and prosecution to amuse themselves. Although he said the criticism was accompanied by a solution, but only diomongkan, not always Si-critic to be done, however, always require someone else to do. Critique without solutions is always given by the things that always measure yourself how to match clothes on the bodies of others? Expression was already seen as well as his heart which always breathes with a sense of truth itself. This is one more proof that it is more of a "turn on himself." What does it mean introspection always have to live. So, would that we act immediately rather than giving criticism without a solution in the sense that, no realization of what has been said